I was asked by a boy
to share some thoughts about Daddy in Charge as he thought other boys would
enjoy hearing a Daddy’s perspective. Jut
to be clear, I use the term boy to mean a younger adult male interested in an
older man. Also, these are my thoughts
only and should not be taken as how things have to be. That’s for each to decide for themselves and
their Daddy/boy.
So here’s my first
stab at a blog post.
Let me start by
talking about why I started Daddy in Charge.
There are 3 main reasons.
- Although there are many groups and websites about both older/younger and dominant/submissive relationships, there were none that spoke to my specific interest in relationships between older dominant men and younger submissive men. Since this was the case, I said to myself “self, there’s nothing else out there so do it yourself.” I thought there’s be others interested and by the number of guys of all ages who’ve joined my various group, I was right.
- I thought it could help me meet some younger guys who were looking for dominant Daddy.
- Last, but maybe the most important reason, was to create a place where younger men who were looking for or fantasized about this type of relationship could go and discover there are many other men, both younger and older, who are also interested in this type of relationship. I know it can be very difficult for young men in this situation, both in admitting it to themselves and even more so to others. I know this because it describes me when I was younger and I know I'm not unique.
So what is a Daddy
in Charge? He is the older authority
figure for a younger man. He doesn’t
necessarily even have to be a Daddy. He
could also be a coach, teacher, uncle, big brother, boss, master or have no
label at all. A Daddy is probably the
most the most common authority figure and closest to what I see myself as so I
chose that term.
A Daddy in Charge is
dominant in bed. He’s a total Top, he’s
the one who does the fucking in bed, sometimes gentle, sometimes rough. Sex for his boy is about pleasing Daddy’s
dick with his mouth and his ass. Daddy might
like to eat his boy’s ass to get it ready to be fucked but a boy better keep
his ass very clean. If a boy cums or
not, that’s up to Daddy.
A Daddy in Charge is
also a disciplinarian. He won’t hesitate
to put his boy over his knee for a good spanking when needed. A boy needs boundaries and rules but will
break them at times so it’s Daddy’s job to remind him to stay within those
boundaries. If needed, other types of
punishment can be used. These can
include other boyish punishments like corner time, mouth soaping, groundings or
extra chores. A boy won’t like it but
accepts Daddy’s right to punish him as he knows it's for his own good.
Finally, but maybe
most important, a Daddy in Charge always has his boys well being in mind. Daddy might fuck him like a bitch but cuddles
him in bed afterward. Daddy might spank
him until he’s crying real tears but will hold him close until the tears
stop. Daddy will take his boy out to
dinner, to movies, the beach, an amusement park, all the fun things a Dad and
boy can do together. Daddy is always
there when his boy needs him.
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