a boy finds his dream Daddy

New Tumblr Blog

My Dad in Charge blog on Tumblr got deleted.  I have started a new Tumblr at http://inchargedad.tumblr.com/ .  I invite you to check it out.

Dad's Fantasies

I received a question on my Tumblr blog asking about my favorite fantasy.  My guess is the guy who asked me this was looking for a specific type of sexual encounter that I fantasize about.  I don’t really have those types of fantasies.  I did when I was younger but since then, I’ve realized many of those fantasies.  Some I enjoyed, some I didn’t.

Fantasies I have now are of a more general nature.  Mostly, I fantasize about finding that perfect boy, one who meets my needs and whose needs I can fill. A boy who needs an older man in his life to guide him, control him, discipline him, fuck him but also makes him feel safe and secure.  This is a fantasy I hope to make a reality although it would require some compromise as I don’t expect that the “perfect” boy exists in the same way that I’m not going to be the “perfect” Dad as I’m far from perfect myself.

I do have a fantasy though that is strictly fantasy.  In that fantasy, I’m the pimp to a stable of total bottom boys who are available to be used in any way a customer might want.  I’d personally teach them how to suck, how to get fucked, hot it’s their place to be sex toys for the men who pay to use them.  They’d be available for my own personal use at any time.  They’d be subject to discipline for any sort of misbehavior, especially if they failed to please a client.  Clients would be free to discipline them also.  I would of course be responsible for my boys’ safety at all times but otherwise and they’d be free to leave at any time but, as long as they chose to remain with me, they’d be under my complete control.

I’m curious if there are any boys out there who have fantasize about being a boy whore.  If there are, tell your fantasy in the comment section below.

Mikey Gets Spanked

This is repost of the full version of my "mikey gets spanked" video for my tumblr followers.

Dad in Charge's Interview

An Interview with Dad in Charge

Here's an interview I did with jake for his blog, Cornertime Confidential.

It's focused on my on interest in discipline so check it out if you like.

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ABOUT DADDY IN CHARGE

I was asked by a boy to share some thoughts about Daddy in Charge as he thought other boys would enjoy hearing a Daddy’s perspective.  Jut to be clear, I use the term boy to mean a younger adult male interested in an older man.  Also, these are my thoughts only and should not be taken as how things have to be.  That’s for each to decide for themselves and their Daddy/boy.

So here’s my first stab at a blog post.

Let me start by talking about why I started Daddy in Charge.  There are 3 main reasons.

1. Although there are many groups and websites about both older/younger and dominant/submissive relationships, there were none that spoke to my specific interest in relationships between older dominant men and younger submissive men.  Since this was the case, I said to myself “self, there’s nothing else out there so do it yourself.”  I thought there’s be others interested and by the number of guys of all ages who’ve joined my various group, I was right.

2. I thought it could help me meet some younger guys who were looking for dominant Daddy.

3. Last, but maybe the most important reason, was to create a place where younger men who were looking for or fantasized about this type of relationship could go and discover there are many other men, both younger and older, who are also interested in this type of relationship.  I know it can be very difficult for young men in this situation, both in admitting it to themselves and even more so to others.  I know this because it describes me when I was younger and I know I'm not unique.

So what is a Daddy in Charge?  He is the older authority figure for a younger man.  He doesn’t necessarily even have to be a Daddy.  He could also be a coach, teacher, uncle, big brother, boss, master or have no label at all.  A Daddy is probably the most the most common authority figure and closest to what I see myself as so I chose that term.

A Daddy in Charge is dominant in bed.  He’s a total Top, he’s the one who does the fucking in bed, sometimes gentle, sometimes rough.  Sex for his boy is about pleasing Daddy’s dick with his mouth and his ass.  Daddy might like to eat his boy’s ass to get it ready to be fucked but a boy better keep his ass very clean.  If a boy cums or not, that’s up to Daddy.

A Daddy in Charge is also a disciplinarian.  He won’t hesitate to put his boy over his knee for a good spanking when needed.  A boy needs boundaries and rules but will break them at times so it’s Daddy’s job to remind him to stay within those boundaries.  If needed, other types of punishment can be used.  These can include other boyish punishments like corner time, mouth soaping, groundings or extra chores.  A boy won’t like it but accepts Daddy’s right to punish him as he knows it's for his own good.

Finally, but maybe most important, a Daddy in Charge always has his boys well being in mind.  Daddy might fuck him like a bitch but cuddles him in bed afterward.  Daddy might spank him until he’s crying real tears but will hold him close until the tears stop.  Daddy will take his boy out to dinner, to movies, the beach, an amusement park, all the fun things a Dad and boy can do together.  Daddy is always there when his boy needs him.

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